Sunday, July 19, 2009

What would you Act in A Dilemma..

"Dilemma" is a kind of situation that most of the people will experience it in real life. Why dilemma always happened to everyone ? When you are facing the dilemma, how would you face it and how do you make it a perfect ending without sacrifice any side when you had making your final decision on it. !

Often, when you has derived a brand new opportunity or a good chance is comes to you, but in this time you dont know how to say goodbye to the " exist one" that you currently having it now. You will worry whether if you choose the new chance, will you hurting or making some conflict to your exisitng " One" lehh..?

Well... " dilemma " is the most difficult test that need people to overcome it. I use to heard from people saying that , " there will rarely or never have a perfect situation on both side in the real life ", no matter how there will be one side is need to be sacrifice, and another side will derive a happiness.

Haih..! In this case, " You " yourself is the one which in the most difficulty as you are in the middle side and you will keep on thinking of "What" & " how" can be making the perfect solution right...!

Sunday, July 05, 2009

Can You Define the meaning of " Frust "

How do you define the meaning of " frustrating"? Is it meaning of annoying or a torturing of you..? Or even you have any others deeper meaning which you can defining.

Well, i would define " annoy " is the situation of when facing some things happened, and we are unable to find the solution to solve up the problem we faced. While " torture " is the situation of when we struggling on somethings that can make you feels so difficulty like hell rather to live.

Hmm..! what do you act when you feel so frustrate? Many people i saw when they feeling frustrating, they are only looks so numb and dumping sitting at the corner and thinking the world like going to extincted.

Some people when they are feeling " frustrating" they will looks so madly just keep thinking of what & how to overcome it. Many ways they think, but never have one method is helping them to solve the problem. Then they start struggling of what they can do. They are suffering, and even dumper and dumper than the beginning. Because they felt like nobody is standing them and lead them a way.

I understand this kind of feeling, because myself also is always experienced it in my life currently. I would always think, why is the problem is everyday and everyday keep appearing with so many kind of different affecting to us in our life. Of course, some people will decide to escape the problem rather to face it. Because they dont want to be struggle themselve into the frustrate. Escape can make them dont need to think back to the unhappy things.

However, some people cannot seek themselve to escape the problem face, they will keep thinking of why the thing happened, and think of what can they solve to the affect. In this situation, when they think into deeply to the affect, then it might bringing them into another Mood such as what i defined at above like torture them or suffering lahh..!

What is the best way to counter it in our life..? I would happy if anyone can share your ideas with us in this title.