Sunday, July 05, 2009

Can You Define the meaning of " Frust "

How do you define the meaning of " frustrating"? Is it meaning of annoying or a torturing of you..? Or even you have any others deeper meaning which you can defining.

Well, i would define " annoy " is the situation of when facing some things happened, and we are unable to find the solution to solve up the problem we faced. While " torture " is the situation of when we struggling on somethings that can make you feels so difficulty like hell rather to live.

Hmm..! what do you act when you feel so frustrate? Many people i saw when they feeling frustrating, they are only looks so numb and dumping sitting at the corner and thinking the world like going to extincted.

Some people when they are feeling " frustrating" they will looks so madly just keep thinking of what & how to overcome it. Many ways they think, but never have one method is helping them to solve the problem. Then they start struggling of what they can do. They are suffering, and even dumper and dumper than the beginning. Because they felt like nobody is standing them and lead them a way.

I understand this kind of feeling, because myself also is always experienced it in my life currently. I would always think, why is the problem is everyday and everyday keep appearing with so many kind of different affecting to us in our life. Of course, some people will decide to escape the problem rather to face it. Because they dont want to be struggle themselve into the frustrate. Escape can make them dont need to think back to the unhappy things.

However, some people cannot seek themselve to escape the problem face, they will keep thinking of why the thing happened, and think of what can they solve to the affect. In this situation, when they think into deeply to the affect, then it might bringing them into another Mood such as what i defined at above like torture them or suffering lahh..!

What is the best way to counter it in our life..? I would happy if anyone can share your ideas with us in this title.

1 comment:

Dryden said...

我喜欢一个哲学家的比喻
人类的人生意义就是寻找人生的意义...
而每天不断重复出现的难题
我想就是上天美丽的安排
因为这些难题将会是对我们的考试
试试看我们的程度到那里

正如和不同的人相处一样
如果把人分成了几个种类
我们很容易发现
一般我们不喜欢的人大略都是那个种类的
如果我们不能好好学会和那种人相处
纵然我们能够逃过这个我不讨厌的人
我们始终还是会遇上下一个

所以就让我们狠狠地去面对挫折
征服它吧~